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A Kingdom Way to Handle Conflict

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Erin Dircksen Posted by: Erin Dircksen 2 weeks ago

Devotions with Kathyrn Week 4

May 27th, 2026


THE MESSAGE

Conflict is inevitable—but how we respond reveals our hearts.

The world teaches us to avoid, defend, or win. But Jesus calls us to something different: restoration.


THE TEACHINGS

Go Directly

Matthew 18:15
Have the conversation. Don’t avoid or talk around it.


Keep It Personal

Handle conflict privately first. Protect dignity.


Seek Restoration, Not Victory

You are not winning an argument—you are restoring a relationship.


Invite Wisdom Carefully

Bring others in for clarity—not to take sides.


Guard Your Heart with Forgiveness

Forgiveness releases what you were never meant to carry.


THE TAKEAWAY

Ask yourself:

Do I want to be right—or restored?

Choose humility.
Choose forgiveness.
Choose reconciliation.

The Kingdom way prioritizes restoration over being right.


PRAYER

Lord, give me a heart that seeks restoration. Help me walk in humility, forgiveness, and truth in every relationship. Amen.